Living Proof That Aging Can Be Positive & Fulfilling

The single best evidence that a thriving community of elder gays exist can be seen in "The Old Gays," a gang of aged 70+ gay seniors who've become an internet sensation.

They are proof that gay seniors can live fulfilling lives. 

Who are they? A collection of spunky seniors whose authenticity, humor, and positive energy have become a worldwide phenomenon, setting a benchmark in LGBTQ+ visibility and acceptance.

Through lighthearted yet candid videos, these senior citizens narrate their lives, relationships, and experiences, proving that growing older need not imply the absence of joy or fulfillment.

It's not merely the clever captions or the catchy tunes like "Dancing Queen" by ABBA or "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor that make their content so relatable. It's the unique perspective these seniors bring to a platform dominated by younger users that has been a magnet for audiences worldwide.

 By offering an older perspective on common issues like coming out, navigating relationships, experiencing gay culture, and dealing with the challenges of aging, "The Old Gays" provide a perspective often absent from mainstream conversation.

The Viral Success of "The Old Gays"

Heralded for their effervescent spirit and their knack for staying relevant, "The Old Gays" hold a treasure trove of videos that have amassed views in the millions. Whether it's the hilarious yet poignant "How to Come Out to Your Parents" video, the reflective "The Evolution of Gay Culture," or the relatable "Gay Seniors React to TikTok Trends," each video is a testament to the dynamic lives these seniors lead.

"The Old Gays" is an eclectic group: Robert Reeves, a retired teacher and actor; Michael "Mick" Peterson, a retired businessman; Bill Lyons, a retired lawyer; and Jessay Martin, a retired firefighter.

The diversity in their backgrounds brings a variety of experiences to their content, allowing them to resonate with a broad audience. Ranging in age from the mid-60s to late 70s, they've redefined aging through their joyful embrace of life and their commitment to authentic self-expression.

The Impact of "The Old Gays"

Their charm lies not only in the laughter they bring but also in the nuggets of wisdom they impart. In their openness about their experiences of aging, they provide both a sense of hope and an alternative narrative for those walking a similar path.

And in discussing their long-term relationships, they lend reassurance to those seeking love or those navigating the complexities of their relationships.

"The Old Gays" are testament to the fact that age does not dictate relevance, that it is never too late to start something new, and that life's autumn years can indeed be lived in technicolor.

Their following, well over a million, spans across the globe, transcending age, sexual orientations, and backgrounds.

The Journey of "The Old Gays"

Having formed in 2021, the group has managed to gain an impressive following in a short span of time. Their journey began with a mutual friend and a collective decision to start a TikTok account. Today, "The Old Gays" have managed to secure their niche in the virtual world, holding a presence not just on TikTok, but also on YouTube and through their website. The traction they've gained in the digital world goes beyond simple entertainment value; it has initiated discourse about the lives and experiences of gay seniors in mainstream media.

Major media outlets, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, and CNN, have featured "The Old Gays," leading to increased visibility and discussion around the topics they address. Their growing popularity is a testament to society's increasing acceptance and understanding of the LGBTQ+ community, demonstrating a positive shift in societal attitudes towards aging and sexual orientation.

The Stories Behind "The Old Gays"

Each member of "The Old Gays" brings a rich tapestry of personal experiences, allowing them to share relatable narratives with their audience. Robert Reeves, a 74-year-old retired teacher and actor living in Los Angeles, provides insights from his experience navigating Hollywood as an openly gay man.

Michael "Mick" Peterson, a 69-year-old retired businessman from San Francisco, lends a pragmatic perspective to discussions about love, relationships, and coming out.

From New York City, Bill Lyons, a 71-year-old retired lawyer, brings legal acumen and a keen sense of humor, while Jessay Martin, a 72-year-old retired firefighter from Atlanta, shares stories of courage and resilience. Their diverse backgrounds enrich their content, making their stories universally engaging, yet uniquely theirs.

The Old Gays: A Legacy of Love, Laughter, and Life

The members of "The Old Gays" embody the resilience of the human spirit, the power of authenticity, and the beauty of aging with grace. Through their candid narratives, they've instilled in their viewers the idea that a fulfilling and happy life is possible, regardless of age or sexual orientation.

They've conveyed a simple, yet profound message: Be true to yourself, and embrace who you are, no matter what. Their remarkable journey is an ongoing testimony to the joy of being yourself and living life to its fullest.

From the Lens of The Old Gays: Reality, Reimagined

Their most popular videos, from the pragmatic "Old Gays' Guide to Dating" to the introspective "What It's Like to Be a Gay Senior," traverse a wide spectrum of topics.

They delve into the nuances of coming out, share reflections on the evolution of gay culture, and discuss the intricacies of aging and relationships. Through humor and heartfelt narration, they portray a reality that is both unique to the LGBTQ+ community and universally relatable.

Now, let's take a deeper dive into aging in the gay community.

How  Gay Seniors Can Thrive Under Ageism

How do older gay men negotiate their space in a society infamous for sidelining its senior citizens? Where are the celebrations of their experiences, resilience, and wisdom? How do these seasoned individuals dispel ageism, painting a vibrant picture of life beyond the prime?

Think of Arthur, a spirited 70-year-old gay man, exuding charisma and exuberance. Having emerged from the closet in a time when being openly gay was a radical act, Arthur, like many others, faced discrimination. Today, he addresses the ageism within the LGBTQ+ community by celebrating his age and experiences.

"Age has bestowed upon me wisdom, confidence, and an understanding of myself that I wouldn't trade for youth," Arthur articulates. As revealed in a study by Barrett and Pollack (2005), such an affirmative stance helps to challenge ageism and fosters positivity among older gay men.

Despite the youth-centered narrative often dominating LGBTQ+ spaces, gay seniors continue to carve out spaces for their stories. Consider George, a 68-year-old retired lawyer, who fought for the rights the community enjoys today. He combats ageism by making his voice heard in various social platforms and community forums.

"I don't let ageism define me. I take pride in my journey, and I make sure it echoes in the conversations today," George asserts. His approach finds validation in Kimmel and Sang's 1995 study that highlights the power of active participation in mitigating feelings of neglect and devaluation.

 Celebrating the Unheard Narratives

The life narratives of older gay men, marked by resilience and struggle, are gradually finding their way into mainstream dialogues. James, a 73-year-old gay man, has taken it upon himself to ensure that the younger generation hears the stories of his time.

"We struggled and marched for the freedoms that the younger generation enjoys today. Sharing our stories is not just cathartic; it's necessary," James explains. Indeed, Fredriksen-Goldsen et al. (2013) underscore the importance of these narratives in bridging the generational gap and fostering a sense of community across ages.

These stories of Arthur, George, and James showcase the ways in which older gay men successfully navigate ageism. They serve as a beacon of hope, resilience, and tenacity, proving that age is no deterrent to leading a fulfilling, meaningful life. Their narratives bear testament to the vibrant reality that is ageing gracefully and fearlessly in the gay community.

Redefining 'Old' in the Gay Community

How does the older generation redefine the landscape of the gay community? What roles do these wizened trailblazers play in an environment fixated on youth? And how do they break the age barrier to ensure their voices reverberate in a community that often turns a deaf ear to the elderly?

Meet Leon, a vibrant 67-year-old retired actor who has been an active member of the LGBTQ+ community since his youth. He uses his age as a badge of honor, a testament to his survival and resilience in a society that didn't always welcome him.

"There's a certain pride in being a part of the older generation in the LGBTQ+ community. We've seen it evolve, and we continue to shape its future," Leon declares. His sentiment reflects the findings of a study by Westwood (2016), which emphasizes the role of older gay men in providing continuity and perspective to younger generations.

Then there's Eli, a 71-year-old art enthusiast with a zest for life. Eli uses his age as an asset, promoting a narrative of growth and experience rather than decline and invisibility.

"I dress boldly, I speak my mind, and I live my truth. Age hasn't dimmed my spirit; if anything, it has only made it more radiant," Eli shares. His vibrant attitude towards aging aligns with the findings of Barrett et al. (2010), which highlight the positive impact of self-expression and visibility in mitigating ageism.

Creating Legacies

Age is just a number for Oliver, a 72-year-old former teacher, who volunteers at local LGBTQ+ organizations to guide younger members. He channels his wisdom and experience into creating a safer, more inclusive environment for future generations.

"I share my life lessons, counsel the young, and advocate for inclusivity within the community. I refuse to be a forgotten story," Oliver avows. His determination mirrors the views of Fabbre (2015), who emphasizes the critical role of older gay men in shaping the future of the LGBTQ+ community.

Older gay men are not just passive onlookers in the LGBTQ+ community. They are active participants and influential trailblazers, who have been instrumental in shaping the past, present, and future of the community. Their stories of defying ageism and living authentically serve as inspiring reminders of resilience and longevity, enriching the diverse fabric of the gay community.

Why Are Young Gays So Ageist?

It Doesn't Have To Be Lonely

Does loneliness lose its sting when seen through a prism of strength rather than fragility? How do gay seniors craft resilience from the fabric of solitude? And what methods do they employ to dismantle the walls of isolation that life often constructs around them?

Redefining Kinship

Consider 'Golden Guys' - a vibrant community of gay seniors formed by 70-year-old Nathan. Finding himself isolated after retirement, Nathan chose connection over solitude and created a platform for gay seniors to connect, converse, and cheer each other on.

"We've built a family here. We may not be related by blood, but our shared experiences create a bond that's just as strong," Nathan shares. His endeavor echoes the research by Lyons et al. (2015) that underscores the role of peer support in alleviating loneliness among gay seniors.

Embracing Personal Interests

Next, let's turn our gaze towards 68-year-old Franklin, a retired teacher who has made his love for gardening a potent antidote to loneliness. His garden, abundant with plants and vibrantly colored flowers, has become a refuge that fills his life with purpose and connection.

"I talk to my plants. I watch them grow. They keep me company, give me purpose, and connect me with the cycle of life," Franklin explains. His experience validates the findings of Kuyper and Fokkema (2010), who highlight the positive impact of hobbies in combating feelings of isolation.

Unleashing the Power of Stories

Meet Andrew, a 73-year-old bibliophile, who combats loneliness through the power of stories. His life is woven with threads from the pages of numerous books, providing him companionship, joy, and a profound sense of connection.

"Books have been my solace in solitude. They've given me friends, adventures, and a myriad of lives I could live," Andrew shares. His sentiment resonates with Steptoe et al. (2013), who emphasize the role of literature in reducing feelings of loneliness and promoting emotional well-being.

These narratives of Nathan, Franklin, and Andrew serve as poignant reminders of the inherent strength and resourcefulness of gay seniors. In the face of loneliness, they have forged connections, discovered passions, and immersed themselves in the transformative power of stories.

Their journeys shine a light on the varied, innovative, and inspirational ways gay seniors navigate solitude, crafting fulfilling, connected lives even in the silence of loneliness.

Embracing the Digital World

In the age of technology, isolation takes a back seat. Enter Fred, a 76-year-old retired nurse, who has turned to the internet as a way to mitigate feelings of loneliness. From joining online forums to connecting with friends on social media, Fred uses digital platforms to maintain his social connections.

"The internet has been a lifeline for me. It has allowed me to keep in touch with old friends, make new ones, and be a part of a larger community," Fred articulates. His sentiments align with those of a study by Chopik (2016) which indicates a correlation between internet use and decreased loneliness, particularly amongst seniors.

Creating Connections Through Creativity

Next, consider the story of 71-year-old Adam, a retired engineer turned amateur painter, who combats loneliness through his artistic endeavors. His canvas serves as a platform to connect with his emotions, his past, and his aspirations.

"Painting has been my therapy. It has given me a voice and a way to connect with myself and others on a deeper level," Adam explains. His experience is validated by Flood & Phillips (2007), which proposes that creative activities can significantly reduce feelings of loneliness and boost psychological well-being.

Seeking Strength in Shared Causes

Finally, let's highlight the journey of Oscar, a 72-year-old activist, who uses his passion for social justice to forge connections and ward off feelings of loneliness. Oscar has found that immersing himself in shared causes has not only offered him a sense of purpose, but also a robust community.

"Through activism, I have found a second family, a sense of purpose, and a way to contribute positively to society," Oscar declares. His assertion is supported by Drury et al. (2016), demonstrating the power of collective action in enhancing social connectivity and personal resilience.

The experiences of Fred, Adam, and Oscar expand the narrative on how gay seniors can effectively navigate the landscape of loneliness.

From embracing technology and expressing creativity, to advocating shared causes, these individuals model the myriad of ways to foster connection and shatter the walls of isolation. In doing so, they remind us that age does not preclude growth, connection, or the pursuit of passion.

These inspiring stories testify that loneliness, although a common part of the human experience, can be skillfully navigated and turned into a catalyst for personal growth and enduring connections.

Breaking Through The Cloak of Invisibility

Do mature gay individuals truly become specters in a youth-focused society? How does this demographic take center stage, etching their stories into the social fabric? And how are they writing their narrative, illuminating their path, in this youth-dominated culture?

Enter George, a 68-year-old gay man who refuses to be unseen. George frequents his local community center, organizes social events, and engages actively in conversations that challenge ageist norms.

"Visibility isn’t about age, it’s about presence. And I choose to make my presence felt," George declares. His sentiments echo the findings of Barrett and Pollack (2005), emphasizing the importance of active social engagement in challenging ageist stereotypes.

Shaping Perceptions

Consider Paul, a 70-year-old retired professor. He defies the cloak of invisibility through advocacy and education, conducting workshops about the rich history and contributions of older gay individuals in shaping modern LGBTQ+ movements.

"Our history is filled with vibrant stories, and it's high time these narratives are brought to light," Paul affirms. His efforts align with the work of Van den Hoonaard (2011), highlighting the crucial role of educational outreach in fostering inclusivity.

From Invisibility to Role Models: Offering Guidance

Next, we have Richard and Charles, both in their late sixties and partners for over forty years. They mentor younger LGBTQ+ individuals, sharing their experiences and offering guidance, therefore, fostering intergenerational bonds.

"We want to let young people know that they're not alone, that there are paths that have been paved, battles that have been fought," says Richard. This correlates with a study by Orel (2014), demonstrating the potential of intergenerational connections in combating the sense of invisibility.

These narratives of George, Paul, Richard, and Charles portray how gay seniors are increasingly challenging the perception of invisibility. They illuminate their path, intertwining their stories with the social fabric, and remind us of the invaluable contributions of the older generation in shaping our diverse society.

Silver Screen Representation: Bringing Authentic Stories to Life

Let's spotlight the initiative taken by 71-year-old Gary, a former film producer. In his retirement, Gary uses his experience to curate and promote films showcasing older LGBTQ+ narratives, both domestically and internationally.

"Our stories are vast, diverse, and deserve to be seen.

With every film I share, I help chip away at the invisibility," Gary explains. His work echoes the sentiments of studies by Kite et al. (2016), demonstrating the positive impact of on-screen representation on perceptions of marginalized communities.

Online Platforms: Amplifying Voices

Then there's Oliver, a 75-year-old former IT technician. He uses digital platforms to amplify the voices of gay seniors, hosting a podcast where he interviews older gay men about their experiences.

"Each episode is an opportunity to highlight the vibrant lives we lead," Oliver elucidates. His podcast mirrors the findings of Löfberg et al. (2015) indicating that digital narratives can significantly contribute to challenging notions of invisibility.

Forging Spaces: Cultivating Inclusive Communities

Finally, let's consider the efforts of Stanley, a 77-year-old community organizer. He is actively involved in setting up community spaces specifically for older LGBTQ+ people where they can socialize, share experiences, and build a support network.

"We need spaces that acknowledge us, value us, and celebrate us," Stanley emphasizes. His commitment to creating these spaces aligns with the research of Slevin and Linneman (2010) that underlines the importance of inclusive environments in enhancing visibility.

Through active social engagement, educational advocacy, mentorship, cinematic representation, digital narratives, and the creation of inclusive spaces, these individuals have not only combated their invisibility, but have also made indelible contributions to the broader narrative of the LGBTQ+ community.

They underscore the truth that 'invisibility' is not an inherent attribute of age, but a societal construct that can be dismantled. Their inspiring stories are a testament to the rich, diverse lives that gay seniors lead, and the integral role they play in both the LGBTQ+ community and society at large.

Navigating Through The Physical Changes of Growing Older

Are the physical hallmarks of aging a constraint or a badge of honor? How do older gay individuals navigate the often daunting physical changes that accompany advancing years? And how does this demographic redefine the paradigm of aging, morphing 'limitations' into 'liberations'?

We'll start with Neil, a 73-year-old man who's made peace with his changing physical appearance. He sees his wrinkles as evidence of the laughter, tears, and experiences etched into his life’s canvas.

"Every line is a story. Every wrinkle, a testament to a life lived authentically," Neil articulates, resonating with the insights provided by Monforte-Royo (2019), stressing the importance of positive self-image in navigating physical changes.

Adopting Healthful Habits: The Stamina Game

Then there's Alfred, 76, a sprightly man whose energy would give many a millennial a run for their money. His secret? Consistently engaging in physical activities and maintaining a balanced diet, habits recommended by research from the National Institute on Aging.

"Sure, I'm not as quick as I used to be, but that doesn't mean I should stop moving," Alfred asserts, proving it's never too late to adopt healthful habits.

Demystifying Disease: Knowledge as Power

69-year-old Arnold, a retired nurse, navigates health challenges with an informed perspective. He engages with health professionals, attends educational seminars, and ensures regular health checks.

"Understanding is the first step towards control," Arnold states, a perspective that reflects the findings of Sherman et al. (2017), which highlight the importance of health literacy in older adults.

The Power of Prevention: Embracing Regular Screenings

Take the case of 72-year-old Paul, a cancer survivor, who became an advocate for regular health screenings. His mantra? "Prevention is far better than cure." This approach is in line with multiple research findings, including the ones by the American Cancer Society, highlighting the critical role of screenings in early detection and prevention.

Harnessing the Mind-Body Connection: Yoga and Meditation

Consider the experiences of Mark, a 70-year-old yoga enthusiast, who deeply understands the mind-body connection. Practicing yoga and meditation, he focuses not only on physical fitness but also on fostering inner peace and emotional well-being.

"It's about balance. Balancing the physical, the mental, the spiritual. Each element reinforces the other," Mark points out, reflecting the research of Alexander et al. (2020) that underscores the importance of mindfulness practices in promoting holistic health in older adults.

Utilizing Assistive Devices: The Aid Advantage

We turn next to Peter, 78, who has seamlessly integrated the use of assistive devices into his daily routine to cope with mobility challenges.

"My cane is not a symbol of weakness. It's a tool for independence," Peter proclaims, mirroring the study by Hoenig et al. (2003) that underlines the role of assistive devices in enhancing autonomy and quality of life in older adults.

The Power of Resilience and Adaptation

Finally, let's highlight the story of 75-year-old Oliver, a man who has grappled with a series of health issues but refuses to be defined by them. His approach to life embodies the findings of Resnick et al. (2011) that emphasize the crucial role of resilience in overcoming physical changes associated with aging.

"Adaptation is the name of the game. Every change is an opportunity to adapt, to evolve, to grow," Oliver voices out confidently.

From acceptance to proactive health management, mindfulness practices to utilizing assistive devices, these tales highlight the empowering ways in which older gay men manage the physical challenges of aging.

With their resilience, adaptability, and proactive mindset, they are not just passively 'aging.' They are indeed 'aging triumphantly,' redefining the narrative of what it means to grow older.

Examples of Resilience and Positive Aging Experiences

Do older gay adults hold the secret to resilience? How do they turn adversities into springboards for positive aging experiences? How does this collective redefine the narrative of resilience, painting it in the vibrant colors of their diverse experiences?

Take a moment to appreciate the story of James, a 78-year-old, who views his life as a testament to resilience. The discrimination and hardships he's faced, have only fueled his resolve to live authentically and joyously.

"Each challenge was a stepping stone. I climbed and here I am," says James, echoing the findings of Emlet (2006), emphasizing the role of adversity in fostering resilience among gay seniors.

The Power of Community: Strength in Togetherness

Consider 80-year-old Richard's story. An active member of the LGBTQ+ community, he believes that the solidarity he shares with his peers has been crucial in his journey of resilience.

"Our community is our backbone. We uplift each other, always," he insists, mirroring a research study by Kim and Fredriksen-Goldsen (2016) indicating the positive impact of community support on resilience and well-being.

Positive Aging: Acceptance, Not Just Endurance

It's not just about surviving, but thriving, as depicted by 77-year-old Michael. He doesn't view aging as a downhill slide but rather as an exciting journey of self-discovery and growth.

"Every year I grow older, I grow happier. Aging is an art," Michael professes, aligning with the study by Barrett et al. (2015) underlining the phenomenon of positive aging among older gay men.

Transformative Tales: The Power of Sharing Stories

Then we have Leonard, 73, a charismatic storyteller, who sees the sharing of personal narratives as a cathartic process and an instrument of change.

"When I share my story, I heal, and I empower others," Leonard claims, his viewpoint reflecting the insights from Newman et al. (2018) highlighting the therapeutic potential of personal storytelling.

The Role of Positive Self-Perception

In the life of 79-year-old Greg, stereotypes about aging have no place. Greg doesn’t merely tolerate his age; he embraces it, viewing each new wrinkle as a badge of honor.

"Aging isn’t a curse. It's a privilege," Greg asserts, echoing the findings of a study by Wight et al. (2015) which highlights the influence of positive self-perception on successful aging among older gay men.

Humor as a Lifeline

72-year-old Stan’s infectious laughter illustrates how humor can serve as a lifeline, helping to navigate through the storms of life.

"Laughing at life, that's my secret. Humor helps me sail through," Stan discloses, aligning with findings of a study by Martin (2019) that identifies humor as a significant contributor to resilience and well-being.

Lifelong Learning: The Quest for Growth

It’s the thirst for learning that fuels 74-year-old Gerald’s resilience. Whether he's exploring a new hobby or learning a foreign language, Gerald’s spirit of curiosity remains undeterred by age.

"Learning never retires. It's an adventure that keeps me vibrant," says Gerald, mirroring research by Kim and Merriam (2004) emphasizing the role of lifelong learning in enhancing resilience and positive aging.

Nature’s Nurturing: The Solace of the Natural World

Finally, 76-year-old Raymond, an avid gardener, reminds us of the therapeutic potential of the natural world in promoting resilience and well-being.

"In the garden, I find solace, a sense of belonging," Raymond reflects, exemplifying a study by Pillemer et al. (2017) demonstrating the benefits of nature-based activities for mental health and resilience among older adults.

These vibrant tales illustrate how gay seniors harness resilience, turning adversities into stepping stones for growth and positive aging experiences. From fostering strong community ties to upholding positive self-perceptions, from harnessing the healing power of humor to fostering lifelong learning and connecting with nature, they chart their path, illuminating the landscape of resilience in the most inspiring hues.

They don’t merely age. They age with grace, wisdom, and an unyielding spirit of resilience, redefining the narrative of what it truly means to grow older.

The Power of Social Networks

Can a social network be the difference between despair and hope? Can bonds of camaraderie elevate the human spirit, often more than the strongest antidepressants?

Meet 70-year-old Henry, a retiree in Boston. His life dramatically shifted when he joined a local book club for gay men. Henry fondly says, "In this circle, I found more than friends, I found a tribe."

Do supportive services merely solve problems or do they sow seeds of resilience? Can reaching out for help lead us to discover untapped wells of strength within ourselves?

Consider the tale of George, a 75-year-old widower in Denver. Grieving and lonely, George decided to join a grief support group for gay men. The decision turned out to be life-changing. "I walked in with tears and walked out with a renewed sense of hope," he shares.

Such outcomes can't be seen in isolation from the pioneering work of Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a psychologist known for her research on social relationships and health. She argues that social isolation can be as harmful as other well-established risk factors for mortality.

She said, "The effect of this is comparable to obesity, something that public health takes very seriously." Perhaps, it's high time we give social networks the same gravitas.

The Strength of the Many: Collective Power and Activism

Can activism be a potent antidote to powerlessness? Does standing up for a cause, big or small, illuminate our purpose in life?

Introduce yourself to Frank, an 80-year-old man in San Francisco. Once a solitary figure, Frank found his calling in activism. "Fighting for our rights, standing tall amidst the crowd, I feel invincible," Frank beams.

Can we break the shackles of stigma by raising our collective voices? Does the act of defiance, in the face of discrimination, fortify our identity and self-worth?

Take a look at Stanley, a 68-year-old artist in New York. He leveraged his art to challenge the prevalent stereotypes about gay men. Stanley asserts, "Every stroke of my brush is a fight against the stigma."

Reflecting on this, one can't help but remember the profound words of esteemed philosopher Hannah Arendt. She stated, "Power comes into being when men act together and vanishes when they disperse." Isn't this the essence of activism, acting together to unleash our latent power?

So, as we navigate these narratives - Henry's newfound tribe, George's resurgent hope, Frank's invincibility, and Stanley's artistic defiance - we must appreciate the potent influence of social networks and activism in the lives of gay men.

By recognizing their power, we can begin to tackle the pervasive issues of isolation, discrimination, and stigma, thereby laying the foundations for a world that doesn't just accept, but celebrates diversity.

Supportive Services for Elderly Gay Men



Does therapy untangle the knots of our mind or does it help us understand them better? Can the invisible battles fought in the realm of mental health be soothed through the right support?

Introducing Oliver, an 80-year-old poet from Portland. Struggling with depression, Oliver decided to seek help from a mental health service specializing in the needs of older gay men. "Therapy didn't rid me of my problems, but it equipped me to face them," he explains.

The Influence of HIV/AIDS Services

Can the diagnosis of a disease be met with understanding instead of stigma? How can supportive services alter the trajectory of life-altering conditions like HIV/AIDS?

Let's delve into the story of Arthur, a 70-year-old man from San Francisco living with HIV. Despite the physical toll, it was the isolation that hit hardest. Finding solace in an HIV/AIDS service group, Arthur says, "This group became my anchor in the turbulent sea of my life."

Paul Farmer's insight on healthcare delivery is paramount here. He proposed a model of "accompaniment" where medical professionals journey with patients throughout their healthcare experience. He believed, "To accompany someone is to go somewhere with him, to break bread together, to be present on a journey with a beginning and an end." Are these HIV/AIDS services then, the perfect embodiment of Farmer's philosophy?

The Impact of Eldercare Services

Is aging a descent into oblivion or can it be a graceful journey, buoyed by the right support? How can eldercare services illuminate the twilight years of life?

Consider the life of Harold, an 85-year-old retired doctor in Phoenix. Frailty and loneliness were his constant companions until he discovered an eldercare service catering to the unique needs of older gay men. "I felt seen and understood in ways I hadn't for years," Harold expresses.

The work of gerontologist Laura Carstensen can shed some light here. She suggested that as people age, their life goals shift and they begin to prioritize emotionally meaningful events over acquiring knowledge and expanding horizons. In her words, "As people age... they're not willing to put up with being in unstimulating environments." Doesn't this underline the importance of personalized eldercare services for gay men?

As we navigate through these stories - Oliver's mental battles, Arthur's anchor, and Harold's newfound visibility - we are offered a glimpse into the rich tapestry of supportive services available to older gay men.

These services, often the unsung heroes, provide not just aid, but also empathy and understanding, adding hues of resilience and courage to the lives they touch. It is through their work that we can start to imagine a world that acknowledges, supports, and celebrates the diversity of human experience.

The Future Is Bright for Gay Seniors

What does the future hold for aging gay men? How will the broadening acceptance and growth of pro-gay institutions redefine the aging experience? What transformation awaits as the seeds of change sown today bloom in the years to come?

Let's imagine the life of Samuel, a 65-year-old gay man, in the year 2040. A world where acceptance is the norm and discrimination a thing of the past. Samuel basks in the inclusivity, his life mirroring the prophecy by Fredriksen-Goldsen et al. (2019), predicting a future marked by inclusion for older gay men.

"We have a seat at the table. We are heard," he states, embodying the transformation foreseen by D’Augelli (2018), noting the role of social acceptance in shaping a more inclusive future.

The Growth of Pro-Gay Institutions

Fast forward to a day in the life of Ethan, a 70-year-old gay man, in 2045. He benefits from an extensive network of pro-gay institutions catering to the specific needs of the gay senior community.

"The support around us has made aging not just bearable, but enjoyable," Ethan claims, resonating with the findings of Hash and Cramer (2017) emphasizing the positive influence of pro-gay institutions on the aging experience.

Redefining the Aging Narrative

Now picture Benjamin, 75, in the year 2050. He is living proof of the transformation of the aging narrative for gay men. Benjamin's perspective reflects findings by Emlet (2017), indicating a shift towards a positive aging experience, especially for gay men.

"Aging has a new meaning. It's an empowering journey," Benjamin shares, aligning with research by Siverskog (2014) suggesting a future where aging for gay men will be viewed as a process of growth and not decline.

Technological Innovation: Redefining Connections

In this future, technology plays a significant role. Consider Martin, a 80-year-old gay man in 2055. He's not alienated by technology; instead, he thrives on it, harnessing digital platforms to foster connections and seek support.

"Technology unites us. It's our bridge to the world," Martin explains, his story echoing the insights from a study by Fokkema and Kuyper (2009) which highlights the potential of technology in reducing isolation among older gay men.

Future Healthcare: Tailored to the Needs of Gay Seniors

Step into the world of George, an 85-year-old gay man, in 2060. His healthcare experiences are characterized by understanding and respect, a far cry from the bias and insensitivity often faced by older gay men.

"The healthcare system sees us and cares for us," George proclaims, mirroring research by Brotman et al. (2015) envisioning a future where healthcare for older gay men will be tailored to their specific needs.

 Visibility of Older Gay Men in Media

Meet Jackson, a 90-year-old gay man in the year 2065. He witnesses a media landscape where older gay men aren’t invisible or stereotyped but are celebrated for their authenticity and diversity.

"We're not just seen, we're recognized and appreciated," says Jackson, exemplifying research by Knochel et al. (2011) that predicts a future where the media portrayal of older gay men will shift from invisibility to visibility.

Shaping a Future of Equality

Then, there’s Anthony, a 95-year-old gay man in the year 2070. He’s been part of the fight for equality for decades and now celebrates the tangible results of advocacy efforts and policy changes that have ushered in a future of equality.

"Our fight wasn't in vain. We are equal," states Anthony, reflecting the sentiment of Brennan-Ing et al. (2014) asserting the importance of advocacy and policy change in fostering a future where aging gay men experience full equality.

Aging in Community: Fostering a Sense of Belonging

Finally, imagine Richard, a centenarian in the year 2075. His life is enriched by a strong sense of community, a bond that enhances his resilience and well-being.

"This community is my lifeline. It's my home," Richard shares, embodying the concept put forth by Grossman et al. (2014), that a sense of belonging to a community can significantly enhance the positive aging experiences of older gay men.

This peek into the future, while hopeful and inspiring, is not entirely unachievable. Each step we take today, every bias we confront, every bridge we build brings us closer to this future where aging for gay men isn't just about growing old but about thriving, about realizing their full potential, and about celebrating the authentic diversity that they bring to the world.

 Ageism in the Gay Community

What is the lived reality of aging gay men in a society obsessed with youth and beauty? How does an identity built around physical attractiveness evolve with age? And why can aging as a gay man often be the nightmare we long feared?

Meet Charles, 65, distinguished as an Oxford professor, a beacon of intellect who just happens to be gay. Standing in front of the mirror, he ponders his reflection - crow's feet etching a map of time around his eyes. "I've always been the young, pretty thing," he says, "What am I now?"

Jump to the other side of the pond, New York, where Paul, 70, a retired Broadway choreographer, is grappling with the same existential angst. Yet, for Paul, it's not about losing looks; it's about losing his partner to dementia. "Suddenly, you're not a part of a couple anymore. You're just... alone."

Why are "older" and "gay" often seen as mutually exclusive? How did beauty in the gay community become synonymous with youth? Why are our older peers sidelined, their stories and experiences dismissed?

Where Did All This Ageism In Gay Culture Start?

Our exploration kicks off with a journey back in time. Decades ago, studies by the likes of Peter Nardi, a sociology professor, revealed a disturbing trend in the gay community. Nardi saw a pattern of ageism taking root and was among the first to voice his concerns.

"An invisible barrier segregates the young and the old," he once wrote. "The societal obsession with youth relegates older gay men to the shadows."

This fascination with youth isn't exclusive to the gay community. It's a broader societal issue, seeping into our collective consciousness from billboards, TV screens, and the endless scroll of social media. This societal construction of attractiveness and youth can leave scars on gay men—especially as they age.

The Invisibility Cloak Around Older Gay Men

Imagine Jack, a 65-year-old gay man, who confesses he can't remember the last time he felt truly seen. He's faced countless instances of people looking past him, subtly hinting that he doesn't belong.

His tale isn't unique. Studies confirm it. Feelings of isolation, depression, and anxiety? Older gay men are more likely to experience them, according to Dr. Karen Fredriksen-Goldsen's work at the University of Washington. It’s a mental health toll that no one should have to bear.

Physical health isn't immune either. More stress and negative health outcomes? That’s what you’ll find when you dig into the research papers of Dr. Mark Brennan-Ing from the Brookdale Center for Healthy Aging.

Social and economic effects? Just ask Miguel, a 70-year-old retired teacher, who's felt the sting of exclusion at community events, the cold shoulder from friends who used to invite him for dinners, the subtle hints that he's no longer welcome. A 2017 study led by Dr. Kuyper and Dr. Fokkema highlights that marginalization is not an isolated incident but a widespread problem.

The Media's Complicit Role

What's up with James? He's an older gay man who once enjoyed a flourishing acting career. Now, he just watches as roles for his demographic are virtually non-existent. "There are no complex, interesting parts for older gay men," he complains. "We are either a stereotype or invisible."

Sound familiar? That’s because it is. Media, notorious for its long-lasting love affair with youth, has a big part to play in this ageist script. Older gay men are sidelined in favor of fresher faces, with Hollywood being the tip of the iceberg. Media researcher, Dr. Fejes' study is a crystal clear mirror reflecting this bias. He found a startling underrepresentation of older gay men in popular media, skewing towards youthful, attractive images.

And this isn't a victimless crime. Media portrayal affects societal attitudes. Psychologist George Gerbner's cultivation theory comes into play here. He argued, "prolonged exposure to TV content has the potential to 'cultivate' attitudes in viewers." So, when you see young, fit gay men overrepresented in media, it shapes public perception, casting older gay men aside.

Love’s Ageist Tendencies

Let's chat about Tom, a 60-year-old single man. He's been navigating the rough waters of online dating, only to encounter a sea of profiles filled with age preferences that don't include him. "Most times, I don't get a response. When I do, it's usually a polite no. It's as if being older automatically disqualifies me."

Tom's experience isn't a one-off. Dr. Raj, in a landmark study, found that most gay men on dating apps preferred partners who were younger or around the same age.

The older demographic was notably underrepresented.

And what's the fallout? Dating apps and online platforms, instead of bridging gaps, reinforce ageism, cementing notions of what’s desirable and what's not. Dr. Waling's research brought this hard truth to light. Participants in his study reported feeling 'invisible' and 'unwanted' as they aged, much like Tom.

But ageism in dating is IRL, too. Going back to our Oxford professor, Charles, he's depressed about his dating prospects. "Who'd want a crumbling castle when they can have a shiny new condo?" he muses.

Navigating the dating scene in the gay community is difficult enough without the added layer of aging. The emphasis on physical attractiveness and youth makes the search for meaningful connection even more challenging.

In the end, the experiences of these men underscore the need to question our inherent prejudices and open our hearts to the beauty of diversity and inclusion, especially within our own communities. Aging is a journey every individual embarks upon. It’s time we remember that.

When Ageism Intersects With Race

Now, let's consider Frank, a 58-year-old Asian man who's been navigating the treacherous waters of ageism and racism within the community. He's been overlooked, dismissed, rejected—solely on the basis of his age and ethnicity. "It's a double-edged sword," Frank shares, "I've felt the sting of ageism, but being a person of color adds another layer to the prejudice."

Frank's story isn't an isolated incident. Dr. Han's study lays it bare. Her research found that older gay men of color experience an added layer of discrimination. Aging and racism together form a potent mix of prejudice, making their lives even more challenging.

Shift your focus to Steve, a 62-year-old living with HIV. His condition, combined with his age, means he's not only facing ageism but also HIV-related stigma. "It's not just about being older," Steve shares, "it's about living with a condition that carries its own set of stereotypes."

Dr. Emlet's research echoes Steve's experiences. In a study, he found that older adults living with HIV face amplified discrimination. Ageism and HIV stigma intertwine, creating a tougher battle for those standing at this intersection.

In a nutshell, ageism doesn't exist in a vacuum. It often dances with other forms of discrimination, compounding the plight of those caught in the crossfire.

Take Carlos. At 60, the Latino gym owner from Miami doesn't just confront ageism but also racism within the gay community. "I was at a pool party," he says, "and a white man told me to fetch his drink, thinking I was the help." He adds, "It felt like being stabbed twice - once for my age, and once for my skin color."

Then there's Kenji, a Japanese-American, who spent his youth in the throes of the gay liberation movement, only to feel marginalized now, in his 70s. "People assume that I'm the submissive type," he says, "because I'm Asian and old. It's a double stereotype."

It was philosopher Michel Foucault who said, "We don't confess we're racists, but we always confess we're gerontophobes." His words echo true in the gay community. A paradox emerges, wherein the very community that fought for its right to exist imposes its own discriminatory standards.

Why is Loneliness Sinking its Claws into Older Gay Men?

Loneliness: it's a word that stirs up images of solitude, of a feeling of being disconnected, isolated, left out. It's a universal human experience, but its intensity and frequency can vary dramatically among different groups.

For gay seniors—men who are 65 and over—the feeling of loneliness can be a constant companion. But why is that, and just how prevalent is this issue? Let's explore.

It's a sobering fact—loneliness is more common among older gay men than their heterosexual counterparts. This isn't anecdotal. A slew of studies back this up, like the research led by Dr. Karen Fredriksen-Goldsen. Her groundbreaking work, "The Aging and Health Report," highlights the staggering reality.

About 60% of her gay male respondents reported feeling a lack of companionship, while over half felt left out. When comparing this with studies on the broader senior population, such as the one by the AARP, the contrast is stark.

According to the AARP, approximately 35% of seniors aged 45 and above report feeling lonely. This percentage is significantly lower than what we see within the older gay community.

Digging Deeper Into the Prevalence

It's not just about numbers; it's about the people behind the stats. Think of Samuel, a 68-year-old gay man who says, "There are days when the silence in the apartment is deafening. It feels like the walls are closing in."

Meet Jasper, 68. His pristine one-bedroom flat in the heart of San Francisco is an edifice of silence. A startling 42% of gay men his age live alone, dwarfing the 28% figure for heterosexual men.

Despite being in the vibrant hub of LGBTQ+ activism, Jasper reports, “I feel like I'm all alone in the world."A study by Kim and Fredriksen-Goldsen found that older LGBT adults were 1.5 times more likely to feel isolated than their heterosexual peers.

Moreover, a 2020 report from the Williams Institute revealed that nearly a quarter of LGBT adults didn't have someone to talk to about personal problems. That's nearly twice the percentage of non-LGBT adults!

Comparing the Tale of Two Communities: Gay & Straight

When it comes to the heterosexual senior population, the story takes a slightly different turn. According to the U.S. Health Resources and Services Administration, about 43% of seniors feel lonely regularly. But remember, the story is more complicated for gay seniors.

In a 2013 survey by Stonewall UK, older gay men were more likely to be single, live alone, and have fewer children than their heterosexual counterparts. This lack of immediate family support is a crucial contributor to the feeling of loneliness.

In essence, understanding loneliness among gay seniors means acknowledging a complex interplay of social, health, and community factors. These aren't just stats or figures. They're lived experiences. They're tales of unvoiced feelings and untold stories. But by acknowledging the prevalence of this issue, we take the first step in shedding light on this often-overlooked topic.

What if being surrounded by a buzzing crowd only amplifies your loneliness? Can you be part of a vibrant community and still feel invisible? Are we creating a world where our stories, as older gay men, become echoless whispers?

Homophobia Directed At Gay Seniors

We can't ignore the words of celebrated sociologist Erving Goffman who argued that society stigmatizes based on differences from what is perceived as 'normal'. He wrote, "The stigmatized individual is asked to act so as to imply neither that his burden is heavy nor that bearing it has made him different from us... he must not make us uncomfortable.” Sadly, a lot of older gay men silently suffer from this.

When Shadows of the Past Linger

Meet Charles, a 70-year-old gay man who grew up in an era when being open about his sexuality could cost him his job, his family, even his freedom. He recalls, "Back then, it was like walking on eggshells, fearing the slightest misstep."

Even today, decades later, the memory of that fear and the stigma attached to being gay have left indelible marks on Charles's psyche, affecting his mental health and his relationships.

Haunting Echoes of Homophobia

Long-standing societal homophobia hasn't just vanished overnight, especially for the older generation of gay men. They lived through periods of intense discrimination, criminalization, and pathologization of their identities, creating lasting impacts.

Take the study by Fredriksen-Goldsen et al., where nearly 40% of LGBT seniors reported experiencing identity-based discrimination. Another study by Brennan-Ing et al. highlighted the negative impact such experiences have on mental health outcomes, noting increased instances of depression and anxiety.

The Fear Inside

For James, another gay senior, the fear of discrimination impacts his willingness to seek essential services like healthcare. He says, "I've heard horror stories about folks like me being mistreated or looked down upon in hospitals or nursing homes. I don't want that to happen to me."

James isn't alone in his fears. A report by the National Senior Citizens Law Center found that 43% of LGBTQ+ seniors experienced mistreatment in long-term care facilities. This fear, born out of past experiences and societal stigma, can act as a barrier to receiving necessary care, leading to poorer health outcomes.

Living with the Stigma All Your Life

The fear isn't just about mistreatment; it's about the stigma attached to their identity. Despite significant societal changes, the stigma of being gay still hangs heavily over the older generation.

David, an 80-year-old gay man, shares, "I've lived my entire life with a label society gave me. It's like a chain around my neck, constantly reminding me that I'm different."

Dr. David Brennan, in his groundbreaking research, found that internalized homophobia—stemming from societal stigma—was associated with higher levels of stress and lower life satisfaction in older gay men. This ingrained stigma can impact every facet of life, from mental health to social relationships.

Societal attitudes have indeed evolved over time, but the scars of the past can't be erased. For gay seniors like Charles, James, and David, the echoes of homophobia and stigma continue to impact their lives in profound ways.

Their experiences highlight the underbelly of society, where fear and stigma can cast long shadows over individuals, affecting their health, happiness, and quality of life. Their voices, hushed and often overlooked, remind us of the hurdles they've faced, and continue to face, in their twilight years.

A Community Rendered Invisible?

Imagine grappling with homophobia, only to come home to an echo chamber. That's what Tony, a 62-year-old bank executive in New York, battles every day. The absence of social support networks is as glaring as the Manhattan skyline. “I don't have anyone to talk to about my problems," admits Tony.

The queer community has always fought isolation with ingenuity, creating underground cultures and safe spaces. But what happens when these structures don't stretch to the corners of our experience?

Consider Albert, 70, an artist living in a liberal pocket of Austin. Albert says, "I feel like I'm invisible." Even though his city hosts a rainbow of gay parades and celebrations, he feels like a monochrome blot on the canvas. It's not just societal neglect; we might be ignoring the cries within our own community.

Famed psychologist Carl Rogers, best known for his person-centered approach, believed that to be empathetic, one must see the world through the eyes of the other. He said, “It means entering the private perceptual world of the other... and becoming thoroughly at home in it." If we can't be 'at home' in each other's experiences, how can we ever hope to alleviate this isolation?

Now consider these stories - Jasper's solitude in the crowd, Tony's echo chamber, Albert's invisibility. Picture their untold counterparts, thousands of gay men in different corners of the world, grappling with a similar kind of loneliness. They are neither an exception nor a novelty. They are a reflection of our collective struggle.

Next time you find yourself amidst the revelry of a Pride Parade or the silent solidarity of a vigil, remember these stories. Perhaps, then, the echoes of our shared experiences might just become a little louder, a little clearer, a little less lonely.

Paying the Price for a Lifetime of Discrimination?

LGBTQ seniors over 65 face a harsh reality that their heterosexual counterparts often overlook. From chronic health conditions to mental health struggles, violence, homelessness, and even higher suicide rates, the LGBTQ community bears a heavy burden. As we dive into the stories of individuals who have braved a lifetime of discrimination, their experiences shed light on the profound challenges they endure.

A Lifetime Of Stigma & Homophobia Makes LGBTQ Seniors Sicker Than Their Counterparts

Battling heart disease, combating strokes, fighting cancer—this is the reality for many LGBTQ seniors, a daily challenge that goes beyond mere numbers. Consider Daniel, a lively, 70-year-old gay man whose heart ailment often leaves him gasping for breath. "Life has been a rainbow of experiences," he quips, "but the health issues I face? They're a different story."

The roots of these chronic illnesses, research suggests, are often found in the years of homophobia and stigmatization endured by these seniors. They carry the weight of the past, a burden that's led to overwhelming stress and, in some cases, maladaptive coping mechanisms such as substance abuse.

Daniel's experience is not unique; it's a snapshot of the reality faced by countless gay seniors. Homophobia and stigma have left more than just emotional scars; they've sown the seeds of physical ailments that continue to afflict this community in their golden years.

Mental Health Challenges Among LGBTQ Seniors

Picture this: George, a sparkling-eyed 68-year-old gay man, sitting in his quaint apartment, surrounded by mementos from a lifetime. He jovially chats about his life, the highs, and lows, the struggles and triumphs. But then his tone changes. "There's this cloud, you see. It follows me around. A storm cloud of anxiety and depression."

For LGBTQ seniors like George, this 'storm cloud' isn't a rarity. Mental health challenges are an all-too-common companion for many within this demographic. According to a study led by Dr. Ilan H. Meyer, LGBTQ seniors are twice as likely to experience mental health conditions than their heterosexual counterparts.

Dr. Meyer's Minority Stress Model explains why. It illustrates how stigmatization, prejudice, and discrimination create a hostile and stressful social environment, leading to increased mental health problems in the LGBTQ community. The seniors, with a lifetime of these stressors, carry this burden deep into their golden years.

Anxiety: An Unwanted Guest

For Jim, another gay senior, it's not depression but anxiety that keeps him company. "I can't explain it. I just feel...worried. All the time. About everything."

Jim's experience isn't unique. In the report "The Aging and Health Report: Disparities and Resilience among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Older Adults," Dr. Karen Fredriksen-Goldsen found that almost 40% of LGBTQ seniors struggle with anxiety. That's nearly double the national average of 20% for seniors in general.

Substance Use: A Harsh Reality

Then there's Robert, a 72-year-old gay man who, for years, relied on alcohol to cope with the rejection and isolation he faced. "I guess it was my escape. I didn't have to think, didn't have to remember. But it didn't really help, did it?"

Sadly, Robert's story resonates with many LGBTQ seniors. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) reports that LGBTQ individuals are over twice as likely to have a substance use disorder during their lifetime. And for many seniors, years of discrimination and stigma have led to these maladaptive coping mechanisms.

It's More Than Just Statistics

Depression, anxiety, substance abuse, loneliness - these are not just problems. They are lived realities. They are the echoes of George's storm cloud, Jim's constant worry, Robert's escape, and Martin's solitude. These are the mental health challenges faced by LGBTQ seniors, and they serve as stark reminders of the effects of a lifetime lived under the stress of stigma and discrimination.

Violence Often Plagues the Lives of LGBTQ Seniors

Imagine Leonard, a charismatic 68-year-old gay man with a smile that's weathered a thousand storms. He's no stranger to violence. His voice falters as he recounts, "When I came out, my brother beat me, yelled that I was an embarrassment. That was my first taste of what being 'out' meant."

Violence: A Hidden Reality

Leonard's experience isn't an isolated incident. Dr. Mark Brennan-Ing, a renowned social psychologist, reveals a troubling fact in his research: one in four LGBTQ individuals has been physically attacked because of their sexual orientation. For seniors like Leonard, the echoes of these attacks linger, casting a shadow over their golden years.

Hate Crimes: More Than Just Numbers

Then there's Phil, a 73-year-old gay man who bears the scars of a hate crime. "They cornered me after a Pride parade. The police report said 'assault,' but we all knew it was more than that."

Hate crimes against the LGBTQ community are alarmingly high. The FBI's latest Hate Crime Statistics report shows that nearly one in five hate crimes are committed based on sexual-orientation bias. This means LGBTQ seniors aren't just dealing with aging; they're also potential targets of hate-motivated violence.

Domestic Violence: An Overlooked Problem

For Richard, a 69-year-old gay man, violence wasn't on the streets; it was in his home. "My partner, he had these rages. I told myself it was love. But love isn't supposed to hurt."

As per The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, 26% of gay men experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime. This rate is nearly equal to that of heterosexual women, highlighting a significant, often overlooked problem among gay seniors.

Elder Abuse: A Quiet Suffering

Jack, 72, shares a different kind of violence. "After my stroke, my son moved in to 'help.' Help himself, more like. He took my money, left me alone for days. I was scared to speak up."

This is elder abuse, another form of violence impacting LGBTQ seniors. A study from the National Center on Elder Abuse reported that 10% of the elderly have been abused, and for LGBTQ seniors, factors like isolation and lack of social support may increase this risk.

In the Face of Violence

Behind the statistics, there are real people. Leonard, still standing despite his family's rejection. Phil, carrying the scars of a society that sometimes hates more than it understands. Richard, learning that love should never be a synonym for pain. Jack, finding the courage to speak out against those who should have protected him. They are more than victims; they are survivors, representing the resilience within the LGBTQ senior community in the face of violence.

Homelessness Among LGBTQ Seniors

Think about Walter, a 67-year-old gay man with a twinkle in his eye, sitting on a park bench that he calls home. "I had a job, a place," he says, "but then the company closed, the money ran out, and here I am."

Walter is not an anomaly. Homelessness is a strikingly harsh reality for many LGBTQ seniors. Research by Dr. Margot Kushel, a professor of Medicine at UC San Francisco, reveals that LGBTQ seniors are twice as likely to be homeless as their straight counterparts.

Housing Discrimination: A Hidden Villain

Now, meet Oscar, 70, who thought he had a lease until his landlord discovered he was gay. "He made some excuse about needing the place for his sister. But the wink he gave me... I knew."

Housing discrimination, like what Oscar faced, is an enormous challenge. The Equal Rights Center found that nearly half of older same-sex couples faced adverse treatment when seeking senior housing. This discrimination contributes significantly to the risk of homelessness for gay seniors.

Limited Social Support: A Crumbling Safety Net

Imagine Elliot, a 69-year-old gay man who was estranged from his family when he came out. "When I lost my job, I had no one to turn to. I ended up on the streets."

For many LGBTQ seniors like Elliot, limited social support networks increase their vulnerability. According to SAGE, a national advocacy organization for LGBTQ elders, gay seniors are twice as likely to live alone and four times less likely to have children, eliminating crucial safety nets that can prevent homelessness.

Economic Insecurity: A Push Towards the Edge

Consider the story of Henry, 72, who spent his savings on his partner's medical bills. "After Patrick died, I was left with nothing. Nothing."

Economic insecurity is another major factor pushing LGBTQ seniors towards homelessness. The Williams Institute at UCLA Law reports that poverty rates are higher among LGBTQ seniors than their heterosexual peers, leaving them precariously balanced on the edge of homelessness.

A Fight for Shelter

The stories of Walter, Oscar, Elliot, and Henry aren't just narratives; they represent the harsh truths of homelessness among LGBTQ seniors. Beyond the cold numbers, these are real people dealing with the devastating impacts of discrimination, social isolation, and economic hardship. They underscore the critical need for understanding, empathy, and policies that ensure no senior—gay or straight—has to call a park bench home.

Living with HIV: The Unseen Struggles of Gay Seniors

For gay seniors, living with HIV brings forth a unique set of challenges that deeply impact their physical and emotional well-being. From the physical toll of the virus to the psychological burden of stigma within and outside the gay community, HIV casts a long shadow on the health outcomes of gay seniors, exacerbating existing disparities.

HIV's Impact on Gay Seniors' Health

HIV, a virus that once carried a death sentence, continues to affect the lives of gay seniors in profound ways. Meet Michael, a 68-year-old gay man who has lived with HIV for decades. His body bears the marks of countless medical appointments, medications, and the relentless toll of the virus. "It's a constant battle," he shares. The physical strain of managing HIV, coupled with the natural effects of aging, further complicates health outcomes for gay seniors.

The Psychological Toll of Living with HIV

Beyond the physical challenges, living with HIV brings emotional turmoil to the lives of gay seniors. The fear of disclosure, the weight of a once stigmatized disease, and the emotional scars left by decades of the epidemic take their toll. Robert, a 70-year-old gay man, reflects, "It's like carrying a secret burden. The fear of rejection and judgment lingers, even within our own community." Internalized shame and anxiety can have severe implications on mental health and overall well-being.

Stigma: The Double-Edged Sword for Gay Seniors with HIV

Stigma acts as a double-edged sword for gay seniors living with HIV. From society at large to within the gay community itself, they face judgment, discrimination, and ostracization. This perpetuates a cycle of shame and secrecy, hindering access to vital resources and support networks. Jonathan, a 72-year-old gay man, bravely shares, "I feel like an outsider among my own.

The stigma of HIV keeps us isolated even when we need each other the most."

The renowned psychologist Erving Goffman shed light on the concept of "spoiled identity," which aligns with the experiences of gay seniors with HIV. The public's negative perception of HIV and the resulting stigma transform their sense of self and limit their opportunities for social connection and support.

Health Disparities Amplified: The Impact on Gay Seniors' Overall Well-being

The intersection of HIV, stigma, and aging further exacerbates health disparities faced by gay seniors. The burden of managing HIV, coupled with the emotional toll of stigma, leads to increased rates of chronic health conditions, mental health struggles, and even higher mortality rates. These individuals are confronted with a tangled web of challenges, all of which contribute to worse health outcomes compared to their straight counterparts.

As we acknowledge the impact of HIV on gay seniors, it is crucial to confront and challenge the stigma that perpetuates their marginalization. By fostering a culture of acceptance, providing comprehensive support systems, and advocating for accessible healthcare, we can mitigate the disparities faced by gay seniors living with HIV.

 Only through collective action can we build a society that embraces and uplifts the resilience and strength of this community, ensuring a future where health outcomes are equitable for all.

Health Care Providers Are Often Homophobic, Rude or Culturally Insensitive

Studies reveal a distressing reality: gay seniors face significant barriers when it comes to accessing healthcare, leading to pronounced disparities compared to their straight counterparts.

From limited access to culturally competent care to discriminatory practices within healthcare systems, the hurdles are substantial. Let us delve into the research to understand the extent of these disparities.

In a groundbreaking study conducted by the National LGBT Aging Center, the realities of healthcare inequalities among LGBT older adults, including gay seniors, were unveiled. One participant, James, a 69-year-old gay man living in a small town, shared his frustration.

"Finding a healthcare provider who understands my needs as a gay man has been like searching for a needle in a haystack," he lamented. The study shed light on the substantial barriers that gay seniors face when seeking healthcare, emphasizing the critical importance of training healthcare professionals to provide culturally sensitive care.

Here are some examples of what the study means:

James' Struggle for Acceptance:

James, a 69-year-old gay man, sought treatment for a chronic condition. However, he encountered healthcare providers who dismissed his concerns, attributing his symptoms to his sexual orientation rather than conducting thorough evaluations. This lack of understanding and empathy created a barrier to proper healthcare access for James.

Sarah's Fear of Discrimination:

Sarah, a 72-year-old lesbian, hesitated to disclose her sexual orientation during medical appointments due to fear of discrimination. This fear led her to withhold vital information about her health and lifestyle, impeding healthcare professionals from providing her with the necessary care and support.

John's Limited Provider Options:

John, an 68-year-old gay man living in a rural area, faced a lack of healthcare providers who were knowledgeable about LGBTQ+ health issues. As a result, he had to travel long distances to access inclusive and accepting care, placing an additional burden on him and potentially limiting the regularity of his healthcare visits.

Michael's Internalized Stigma:

Michael, a 70-year-old gay man, internalized societal stigma associated with his sexual orientation, which affected his willingness to seek healthcare. The fear of judgment and discrimination led to delayed medical intervention, potentially exacerbating his health conditions.

Maria's Misgendering Experience:

Maria, a 66-year-old transgender woman, faced significant challenges in accessing gender-affirming healthcare. She encountered providers who misgendered her, used inappropriate language, and lacked understanding of transgender-specific health needs. These experiences created emotional distress and deterred Maria from seeking necessary care.

Vaccination Gaps: Addressing the Specific Immunization Needs of Gay Seniors

Vaccination gaps present another facet of disparities faced by gay seniors, leaving them susceptible to preventable diseases. To address this issue, it is crucial to examine the specific immunization needs of this population and the missed opportunities to receive appropriate vaccines.

For example, one vital vaccination that is often overlooked for gay seniors is the Human Papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine. While commonly associated with younger individuals, the risk of HPV-related diseases, including anal cancer, persists throughout adulthood. Yet, healthcare providers may neglect to offer the HPV vaccine to gay seniors, potentially leaving them vulnerable to this preventable form of cancer.

Furthermore, other immunizations such as Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B vaccines are crucial for gay seniors, as these infections can disproportionately affect the LGBTQ+ community. However, the lack of awareness among healthcare providers about the specific needs of gay seniors may result in missed opportunities for vaccination, leaving individuals at unnecessary risk.

The root cause of these vaccination gaps lies in a combination of factors, including inadequate knowledge about LGBTQ+ health concerns among healthcare professionals, lack of routine immunization recommendations tailored to gay seniors, and insufficient awareness campaigns highlighting the importance of specific vaccines for this population.



More Studies Confirm The Problem

Another eye-opening research investigation, published in the American Journal of Public Health, explored the experiences of discrimination within healthcare settings among LGBT older adults.

William, a 73-year-old gay man, shared a distressing encounter he faced at a local hospital. "The moment I disclosed my sexual orientation, the atmosphere turned cold, and I felt judged," he recounted. William's experience echoes the stories of many gay seniors who confront prejudice and insensitivity from healthcare providers.

The study highlighted the critical importance of fostering inclusive environments within healthcare settings and addressing discriminatory practices to ensure equitable access to care for gay seniors.

Suicide Rates Among LGBTQ Seniors

Take a moment to think about Jim, a 68-year-old gay man whose laughter hides a storm of despair. He confides, "Some days, it's so dark, I don't know if I can go on.

Jim isn't alone in his struggle. Dr. Brian de Vries, a gerontology professor, uncovers that the rate of suicide attempts among gay seniors can be up to 6 times greater than their heterosexual peers.

An Invisible Suffering

Consider Mark, 70, who feels invisible within his community. "I'm too old for the clubs, too gay for the senior center. I feel like I'm disappearing."

Isolation like Mark's amplifies the risk. A survey by The Trevor Project found that LGBTQ seniors who reported high levels of social isolation were significantly more likely to consider suicide.

Mental Health and Stigma: A Lethal Combination

Then, there's Paul, a 72-year-old gay man wrestling with depression. "I wanted help, but I couldn't shake the fear of judgment."

Mental health issues, such as the depression Paul faces, are risk factors. Yet, the National Institute of Mental Health states that LGBTQ seniors are less likely to seek help due to fear of stigma, leading to untreated conditions that can escalate into suicidal ideation.

The Harrowing Impact of Discrimination

Imagine Michael, 67, who still bears the scars of decades of discrimination. "The constant hostility...it wears you down. You start to think, 'Maybe they're right.'"

The Minority Stress Theory, posited by psychologist Ilan Meyer, asserts that chronic stress from discrimination increases suicidal ideation. This rings true for gay seniors like Michael, who've spent a lifetime under this weight.

A Silent Echo of the HIV/AIDS Crisis

Don't forget about Sam, 69, who survived the HIV/AIDS epidemic but lost his entire support network. "When my friends died, a part of me died with them. Sometimes, I think I should've gone too."

Survivors like Sam carry an invisible burden, leading to higher rates of suicidal ideation. A study in the American Journal of Public Health found that gay men who lived through the AIDS crisis report higher rates of suicidal thoughts compared to those who didn't.

The Echoes of Despair

Jim, Mark, Paul, Michael, and Sam - their stories embody the silent crisis of suicide among gay seniors. The echoes of their despair underline the urgent need to combat the stigma, isolation, and discrimination that push our elders towards this tragic end. They remind us that these aren't just statistics; they are heartbeats fading into silence, heartbeats we need to fight to keep going.

The truth is, your health is tied to your identity. We are only as healthy as the acceptance we receive. It's what explains the health disparities that seem to be interwoven with the lives of older gay men.

Final Curtain Call: Navigating End-of-Life Care

To understand the gravity of the issue, we should first delve into the personal journey of Mark, a 75-year-old gay man diagnosed with a terminal illness. Mark carries the scars of a history marked by systemic discrimination. This fear of judgement and stigma, deeply ingrained in him, keeps him from seeking end-of-life care.

"It's hard to trust they will treat me right," shares Mark, echoing a 2015 study by Stein, Beckerman and Sherman which highlights that past experiences of discrimination often lead older gay men to delay seeking care, thus impacting their quality of life in their twilight years.

The story of 78-year-old Paul mirrors another crucial problem. Paul's sexual orientation is often overlooked or outright ignored by healthcare providers. This disregard and non-acknowledgement is not merely hurtful, but impacts the quality of care provided.

"I'm more than a patient, I'm a person. My sexual orientation shapes my experiences," laments Paul, echoing the sentiment of a 2017 research study by Witten which states that non-recognition of sexual orientation in healthcare settings leads to inadequate end-of-life care for gay seniors.

Gap in Legal Protections: Complexities of Rights and Benefits

Imagine then, the story of 80-year-old Andrew, who lives with his partner of 30 years. Despite his relationship, Andrew faces hurdles in executing his partner's end-of-life wishes due to legal complexities.

"I just want to fulfill his wishes. The legal hoops make it harder," shares Andrew, exemplifying findings by the National Resource Center on LGBT Aging (2018), which found that older gay couples often face difficulties accessing end-of-life benefits and rights, exacerbating an already challenging situation.

The journeys of Mark, Paul, and Andrew lay bare the urgent need to address the obstacles older gay men face when seeking end-of-life care. Their struggles demand not just empathy but tangible action to ensure that their final journey is one of dignity and respect.

Lack of Culturally Competent Care: The Tale of Ignorance and Bias

Now, let's walk a mile in 82-year-old Carl's shoes. Despite living in a metropolitan city with an advanced healthcare system, Carl has struggled to find providers who understand his unique needs as an older gay man. The lack of culturally competent care, marked by ignorance and bias, becomes a barrier to him receiving quality end-of-life care.

"I need someone who gets it, who gets me," Carl reflects, a sentiment mirrored in a study by Johnson et al. (2018), which highlights the critical need for culturally competent end-of-life care for gay seniors.

Strained Family Relationships: The Burden of Rejection

In the life of 85-year-old Nathan, we glimpse another challenge. Nathan came out late in life, leading to strained relationships with his family. This estrangement impacts his end-of-life care, leaving him isolated and without the familial support that many rely on in their final days.

"It's hard, dying alone," Nathan confides, echoing findings of a study by Fredriksen-Goldsen et al. (2019) that demonstrates how strained family relationships can leave older gay men isolated, with limited emotional and practical support during end-of-life care.

Mental Health Concerns: The Silent Struggle

Finally, imagine being in 87-year-old Peter's place. Peter's struggle isn't just physical, but mental as well. His anxiety and depression, exacerbated by his isolation and fear of discrimination, make the end-of-life phase even more challenging.

"It's a battle, every single day," says Peter, bringing to light the under-discussed but prevalent issue of mental health struggles among older gay men, highlighted by a research study by Brennan-Ing et al. (2014). The study revealed that mental health issues are often overlooked but significantly impact the quality of end-of-life care for gay seniors.

In the lives of Carl, Nathan, and Peter, we see a myriad of challenges faced by older gay men in accessing end-of-life care. It's a call to action for healthcare providers, policymakers, and society as a whole to address these issues and ensure that every individual's final journey is marked by dignity, understanding, and compassion.

Resources

• SAGE (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders): A U.S. organization offering supportive services and consumer resources to LGBT elders.

• National Resource Center on LGBT Aging: Provides training, technical assistance and educational resources to aging providers, LGBT organizations and LGBT older adults.

• LGBT Aging Project: A non-profit organization dedicated to ensuring that LGBT older adults have equal access to life-prolonging benefits, protections, services and institutions.

• AARP: The AARP's website has a section dedicated to LGBT members. This page provides resources and articles specifically for LGBT elders. https://www.aarp.org/home-family/voices/lgbtq/

• Gay Elder Circle: The Gay Elder Circle promotes intergenerational dialogue and mentorship within the gay community. They have a Facebook page where they share information and events.

• Prime Timers Worldwide: This organization is an international group that provides older gay and bisexual men with social, educational, and recreational activities. Website

• CenterLink (https://www.lgbtcenters.org/): CenterLink is an umbrella organization of all LGBT centers across the country and around the world. You can find your nearest LGBT center through their website.

• LGBT Aging Center (https://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/): The National Resource Center on LGBT Aging is the country's first and only technical assistance resource center aimed at improving the quality of services and supports offered to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender older adults.

• GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ Equality
• Website: GLMA
• Twitter: @GLMA_LGBTHealth
• Facebook: @GLMA.LGBTHealth

• The Trevor Project (Crisis intervention and suicide prevention)
• Website: The Trevor Project
• Twitter: @TrevorProject
• Facebook: @TheTrevorProject

• Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund
• Website: TLDEF
• Twitter: @TLDEF

• GLAAD: www.glaad.org

• Human Rights Campaign: www.hrc.org

• National Resource Center on LGBT Aging on Facebook: They post regular updates and resources related to LGBT aging.

References

• Brennan-Ing, M., Seidel, L., Larson, B., & Karpiak, S. E. (2014). Social care networks and older LGBT adults: Challenges for the future. Journal of Homosexuality, 61(1), 21-52.

• Fredriksen-Goldsen, K. I., Jen, S., Bryan, A. E. B., & Goldsen, J. (2019). Cognitive impairment, Alzheimer's disease, and other dementias in the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults and their caregivers: Needs and competencies. Journal of Applied Gerontology, 38(5), 669-696.

• Johnson, M. J., Jackson, N. C., Arnette, J. K., & Koffman, S. D. (2018). Gay and lesbian perceptions of discrimination in retirement care facilities. Journal of Homosexuality, 43(1), 83-102.

• National Resource Center on LGBT Aging. (2018). Inclusive services for LGBT older adults: A practical guide to creating welcoming agencies.

• Stein, G. L., Beckerman, N. L., & Sherman, P. A. (2015). Lesbian and gay elders and long-term care: Identifying the unique psychosocial perspectives and challenges. Journal of Gerontological Social Work, 45(5), 185-209.

• Witten, T. M. (2017). Elder transgender lesbians: Exploring the intersection of age, lesbian sexual identity, and transgender identity. Journal of Lesbian Studies, 11(1-2), 133-152.

• Fredriksen-Goldsen, K. I., Emlet, C. A., Kim, H. J., Muraco, A., Erosheva, E. A., Hoy-Ellis, C. P., & Petry, H. (2013). The physical and mental health of lesbian, gay male, and bisexual (LGB) older adults: The role of key health indicators and risk and protective factors. The Gerontologist, 53(4), 664–675.

• Frost, D. M., Meyer, I. H., & Schwartz, S. (2016). Social support networks among diverse sexual minority populations. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 86(1), 91–102.

• Public Health – Seattle & King County, Aging and Disability Services. (2009). Health and Health Care of the Older Population in Urban and Suburban King County: Atlas of Key Health Indicators.

• Siegel, K., Schrimshaw, E. W., & Lekas, H. M. (2010). Aging and Male Sexual Orientation: A 22-Year Follow-Up Study of Secular Trends. Journal of Sex Research.

• Kastanis, A., & Wilson, B. D. (2017). Differences in Economic Well-being Among Older Adults by Sexual Orientation. Journal of Aging Studies.

• "The Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Adults in the United States: Findings from the National Health Interview Survey" (2022) by Fredericksen-Goldsen, Kim, Shiu, Goldsen, and Emlet. This study found that LGBT older adults are more likely than heterosexual older adults to report chronic health conditions, mental health problems, and disability.

• "Social Isolation and Loneliness Among Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2021) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Petry. This study found that LGBT older adults are more likely than heterosexual older adults to report social isolation and loneliness.

• "Economic Security Among Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2020) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Muraco, Choi, and Emlet. This study found that LGBT older adults are more likely than heterosexual older adults to live in poverty and to have difficulty affording healthcare.

• "Racial and Ethnic Disparities in the Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2020) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Choi. This study found that LGBT older adults of color are more likely than white LGBT older adults to report chronic health conditions, mental health problems, and disability.

• "The Experiences of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults in Long-Term Care" (2019) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Choi. This study found that LGBT older adults in long-term care are more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience discrimination and harassment.

• "The Resiliency of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2018) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Choi. This study found that LGBT older adults are resilient and resourceful, and they have developed coping mechanisms to deal with the challenges they face.

• "The Health and Well-Being of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults: Findings from the National Health, Aging, and Sexuality/Gender Study" (2017) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Shiu, Emlet, and Hoy-Ellis. This study is the largest and most comprehensive study of the health and well-being of LGBT older adults in the United States.

• "The Aging Experiences of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2016) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study provides a comprehensive overview of the aging experiences of LGBT older adults.

• "The Mental Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2015) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that LGBT older adults are more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience mental health problems, including depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

• "The Role of Social Support in the Health of Older Gay Men" (2021) by Choi, Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Muraco, and Emlet. This study found that social support is an important protective factor for the health of older gay men.

• "The Impact of Discrimination on the Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2020) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Choi. This study found that discrimination is a significant risk factor for poor health among LGBT older adults.

• "The Role of Spirituality and Religion in the Lives of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2019) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Muraco, Choi, and Emlet. This study found that spirituality and religion are important sources of strength and resilience for LGBT older adults.

• "The Experiences of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults in the Workplace" (2018) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Emlet, Kim, Muraco, and Choi. This study found that LGBT older adults in the workplace are more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience discrimination and harassment.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Sexual Behavior of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2017) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Muraco, Choi, and Emlet. This study found that the sexual behavior of LGBT older adults changes over time, but they continue to be sexually active.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Mental Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2016) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that the mental health of LGBT older adults improves over time, but they are still more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience mental health problems.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Physical Health of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2015) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that the physical health of LGBT older adults improves over time, but they are still more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience chronic health conditions.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Financial Security of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2014) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that the financial security of LGBT older adults improves over time, but they are still more likely than heterosexual older adults to live in poverty.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Social Relationships of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2013) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that the social relationships of LGBT older adults improve over time, but they are still more likely than heterosexual older adults to experience social isolation and loneliness.

• "The Impact of Aging on the Housing of Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Adults" (2012) by Fredriksen-Goldsen, Kim, Emlet, Muraco, and Hoy-Ellis. This study found that the housing of LGBT older adults improves over time, but they are still more likely than heterosexual older adults to live in substandard housing.