5 Ways to Get a Guy's Number Without Being Rejected

#1 Seed The Idea Of A Meet-Up.

Let’s say you’re talking about a great park you both like to go to. Tell him you know a great spot to feed the ducks and that you’ll show it to him sometime. When the conversation is close to ending, then say, “Hey, let me take your number and we’ll arrange that trip to see the ducks.”

Here’s another example: You’ve discovered a shared interest, sushi. At the end of the conversation, say, “Hey, give me your number, and we’ll give that new sushi place a try.”

#2 The Pedal To The Metal Approach

Sometimes the shortest distance between two nipples is a straight point. If there’s an immediate connection then be direct:

“Hey, from the moment I saw you I had to tell you that you look amazing. I’d like to talk to you more but my friends are dragging me to some lame party. You should give me your number so I can call you and chat sometime.”

Here’s another example:

"You know what, I really like you, and I am going to take you out on a date this Thursday. Give me your phone number. I’ll call you tomorrow and we’ll talk”

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#3 Go For The Funny & Playful

Sometimes an unexpected move can win the day. For example:

You: “Do you have a phone?”

Her: “Yes, why?”

You: “Can I make a call really quick?”

Her: “Uhm, sure.” (uncertain what you’re up to)

You: (dialing your own number) “There’s a cool guy I want to set you up with. Let’s see if he’s willing.”

#4 Get him To Give You The Number Without Asking For It

Example: “I’m thinking the chances of us running into each other again aren’t that good, how about we get in touch again?”

#5 Use “Social Proof” To Make him Want To Receive Your Call

Once you’ve asked for his number, try this:

• Type his number into your phone
  • Type his first name into your phone. Let’s say it’s “Mike.”
  • Ask for his last name because, “I’ve already got a Mike in my phone.” (just pretend you do)

We tend to value things we’ve invested in or committed to. If he gives you his first AND last name, he’s invested a lot more in your interaction and he will sort of backwards rationalize that you’re somebody of greater worth because of that investment.

Exchanging full names is also more intimate than simply exchanging first names. Ever hear a guy say, “I don’t even know his last name!” Well, you can neutralize that objection right away and maximize the chance that he’ll pick up when you call.

 By exchanging full names you become more of a real person to him, rather than just some guy he met in a bar.