20 Tips For Lip-Locking Excellence

We delve into two of the most renowned books on the subject, "The Art of Kissing" and "Pucker Power: Great Kissers Make Great Lovers," to bring you the top 20 tips and tricks to becoming a truly exceptional kisser.

But why stop at just being good when you can be great? Kissing is a universal form of affection that transcends language and culture. It's an intimate, powerful, and oh-so-enjoyable way to connect with someone special.

So, it's no wonder that we all want to be masters in the art of smooching. But like any skill, it takes practice, knowledge, and a bit of finesse to truly make your mark (on their lips, that is).

That's where we come in. We've sifted through the wisdom imparted by these kissing gurus and distilled it into a snappy, BuzzFeed-style list that's both informative and entertaining.



So, pucker up and get ready. By the time you've finished reading, you'll be armed with the knowledge and confidence to take your make-out sessions from "meh" to "magnifique."

1. Prepare Your Lips

You heard it here first, folks! Smooth lips = better smooches. Keep those kissers moisturized and exfoliated. Chapstick is your BFF. Nobody wants to kiss a desert.

2. Lean In 

Slow and steady wins the race. Lean in with confidence and grace. But don't go full-speed collision, we're aiming for a kiss, not a headbutt.

3. Close Your Eyes

Want a steamy smooch? Close your peepers. It's not a staring contest. Embrace the mystery, feel the connection. Plus, who wants to be that creepy eye contact kisser? Not you.

4. Angle for Success

Head-tilt game on point. Like "The Art of Kissing" says, "The head goes over, not around." Avoid the awkward nose-bump, and keep your smooch smooth sailing.

5. Less Is More

Don't be a "tongue tornado." Take it slow and steady. "Pucker Power" says, "A little tongue goes a long way." So, save the tonsil hockey for another time.

6. Don't Forget to Breathe

Kissing's hot, but passing out? Not so much. Remember to breathe through your nose. Subtly, though. No one wants to kiss Darth Vader.

7. Get Consent

We can't stress this enough: make sure they're into it. Look for signs, ask if you're unsure. Consent is the ultimate turn-on. Remember, great kissers respect boundaries.

8. Vary It

Mix it up! Play with pressure, speed, and technique. As "The Art of Kissing" says, "There are 30 kinds of kisses, and you have to know when to use each one." Keep 'em guessing.

9. Build Some Anticipation

Don't dive in headfirst. Slow down, create a little tension. Like "Pucker Power" suggests, "Pause just before your lips meet, and let the electricity build." Trust us, it's worth the wait.

10. Get Handsy

Hold their face, wrap your arms around them, play with their hair. But remember, gentle is the name of the game. No one likes a death grip during a make-out sesh.

11. Match Your Partner's Rhythm

Dance to the same beat. Kissing is a two-person tango. Adapt to your partner's style, and you'll create some serious fireworks.

12. Target A Lip

Aim for the lower lip. According to "The Art of Kissing," "The lower lip is the one to be kissed first, and then the upper." Trust the experts, they know what's up.

13. Show Some Enthusiasm

Smile between smooches. Show 'em you're having a blast. A little enthusiasm goes a long way. Plus, grinning is contagious.

14. The Power of Compliments

A well-timed compliment can work wonders. "Pucker Power" says, "Tell your partner they're a great kisser." Confidence boost? Check. Better kisses? Double check.

15. Taste the Magic 

Relish the moment, focus on the taste and sensation. "Pucker Power" suggests, "Let your partner's lips meld with yours, and enjoy the taste of their mouth." Kissing is a full sensory experience, so savor every delicious detail.

16. Choose the Right Moment

Location, location, location! A romantic setting can elevate your smooch to new heights. But even if it's not a candlelit dinner, at least make sure you're not blocking a fire exit. Timing is everything.

17. Keep It on the DL

No one likes a bragger. Keep your kissing escapades between you and your partner. Respect their privacy, and they'll appreciate you even more. Plus, a little mystery never hurt anyone.

18. Practice Makes Perfect 

You know what they say, practice makes perfect! So, pucker up and put in the work. The more you kiss, the better you'll get. Just make sure your partner is on board with your training regimen.

19. Stay Fresh: Oral Hygiene 

Brush, floss, and pack some mints. Good oral hygiene is the foundation of great kissing. No one wants to lock lips with funky breath. So, stay minty fresh, and you'll be good to go.

20. Believe You’re Good

Own your smooching skills. Confidence is sexy. Even if you're not a pro yet, just believing you're a great kisser will make all the difference. Trust yourself, and your partner will too.

There you have it! Our top 20 tips for becoming the ultimate kissing aficionado. Now, go forth and conquer the world with your newfound pucker power. Happy smooching!